OH MY FRICKIN' GOD!!! what is supposed to be a nice trip is slowly de-volving into (another) hellish nightmare. Just had a mini-argument with Kristine, which wasn't as big as the 1st one cuz it was stopped just as it started. Once again over something so small. Ok lmeee vent about the 1st round which was from last Thursday the 10th.
So there Kristine and I are, sittin' there watchin' Law and Order: Criminal Intent. It seemed pleasant and normal enough. And then Kristine decides to randomly guess who is the "killer of the week" and I debate that and then it turns into an argument about characters' identities which escalates into a one-sided shouting match about my "diminished intelligence" (which at the time, wasn't put that nicely). Now I'm not the kind of person to just sit back and let someone blow up @ me and not blow back (no pun intended) so that doesn't help much since, like I said, I have a very confrontation personality where when I know I'm rite, I fight like hell to prove it but I know my limits when I'm wrong, fine I will admit defeat. But see Miss KB over here cannot give up without a fight (literally!). So I offer to go online and prove it at which point she's still yelling (which btw freaked out her neighbours which got them to call her leaving a worried msg) and then this is the point where it could've gotten worse but I held back, she swatted my head like she was trying to hit me but missed.
At this time, I completely 4got that maybe I should've let her have her way and back down, then it would've been solved in 30secs! Cuz when Miss Majesty over here is rite, God get outta the way, cuz there's no way in hell she is wrong! Unfortunately, the dingbat I am, I get even more defensive (i don't quite remember the exact words thrown around but KB had quite the foul mouth directed towards me) which led me to raise my voice (and she's blaming me for raising my voice so she did too when she's the one who started it!!!) I keep trying to correct her and trying to calm her down (I'm speaking in a calm voice telling her to calm herself and she's the one telling me to shut up!! what the hell rite?!) and she's saying I'm yelling at HER, hello! hypocrite much?! So then I guess in the heat of the moment she tells me to get out and leave, at which point I throw back "I'm not leaving over some stupid TV show, no way also where am I gonna go?" and I refuse, standing my ground at which point she adds " I don't care, if u don't then I'll just call 911!" and I'm like "Fine, Go ahead!".
I don't remember how things calmed down but they did and we missed a chunk of the show anyway! AND turns out in the end we were BOTH wrong anyway and I said it out loud : "I guess we were both wrong after all" and guess what Miss High and Never Wrong said???? NOTHING!! she had nothing to aay so theru u go!!! She admitted later tho that it was a useless argument!!! 2 days later she told me she probably got easily angry was because she was having her period (as if she isn't angry enough most of the time!!!)
So 2NITE, just like an hour ago, sittin' there watching TV again and I've been on her pillow on the "couch" (I say that because it's just a whole bunch of sofa seats/cushions thrown together on the floor) She says NOTHING and pulls it from under me and then hits me in the face with it which almost knocked my glasses off! And I said that to her, told her to be more careful cuz of my glasses and she snaps back that she doesn't care, and I say watch it, u break em, u buy me a new pair....still "I don't care" she says. I mean how inconsiderate from a person with no common sense when she wears glasses too!!!! HELLOOOO!!! And then she says something (4get what) and I tell her not to start anything over something small again, which she repiies back with "I'm not starting anything, ur the one yelling!" when I haven't even raised my voice!!! Yes, maybe there was a lil attitude in my voice but thats it!!! Then KB decides to go off on a tangent about my loner status here and how I don't get out much, and how I don't do the dishes (which I might add I DO DO ALL THE TIME!!! because I KNOW thats the least I can do!!!) then she corrects herself and says even 2nite I didn't do them (which I was going to leave for 2moro!!! becuz there wasn't that much anyway: 1 pot, 1 pan, 1 dish, 1 cup, 1 fork, 1 knife!!! Wow!!!!) And then she says how I complain about food becuz there's nothing I like (SO NOT TRUE! WHAT HAVE I BEEN EATING IF i DON'T LIKE ANYTHING HERE!!! MY POO?!?!) and I tell her that exact thing, where she tries to create even more problems by trying to bring up non-existent past statements I supposedly made. Ok I made one comment about eggs the other day and she holds it against me!!! I MERELY said "It's too bad u didn't get eggs, I know u don't like them but there's alot I could've done with them" that is all, no attitude involved or anything! I did not complain at all, when she bought food I just said "I'm fine with whatever you get, I dont' care" which part of that sounds like I complained!!! COLISSE!!! TABERNACLE!!! But she did kind of calm herself later but not b4 mentioning that it was such a mistake to let anyone come among other negative comments.
Again, I should've realized that she was on her period so she was more susceptible to being easily offended, but I forgot and I almost let it get out of ocntrol. Fortunately it didn't, because I did hold back a little and didn't say much this time around. next time I really should just shut my brain off!!! So I'm bracing myself for a weird last half of my trip. Feel free to comment if anyone at all is reading........
XOXO Gossip Boy
Sunday, July 13, 2008
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